Sunday, November 17, 2024

Average or not, and other random thoughts and actions

good morning beautiful, dear friends.           as I sit here this morning finishing up my morning coffee and this blog post that was started back towards the last of October,  yup you read that right, I've heard birds outside calling to their mates and friends.          I've heard dogs barking.         one in particular is unfamiliar.           it's funny how you get used to hearing animals and then all the sudden you hear one that's new and it makes me wonder if someone in the neighborhood did get a new family pet.        in the far distance, I'll hear the random mower, start and stop and wonder what's happening.        hahahaha        I heard the train run thru earlier and wondered about the engineer and what was being hauled from one place to another.         I'll hear the random vehicle go past just outside the house and then I'll hear a car door slam and then all the sudden an alarm in the kitchen will go off and I need to get up and take care of something.       maybe my countertop oven finished baking some bread.        but when I hear the sound for me to do something, I'm quickly brought back to my home and no more wondering what's happening just outside the walls of our home.        anyway, that's just some of the randomness that's taking place here this morning.         and the sun is shining beautifully.          it was a crisp 34* this morning, so it's beginning to look and feel like fall and very closely like winter.          most of the leaves are off the trees by now.         so it's starting to look bare.         and I don't mind telling you that I am missing my garden now.          so that's what I'm dreaming of these days.     

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I did want to just put up some random pictures and tell a little bit about each one and maybe share a little bit of info.        back early in the year, I got about 80 to 90 seeds started which was the beginning of my outdoor garden.        they was growing really well and looking great.       I would take them from the garage to the porch every day when it got above freezing and give them some sunshine and shade and let them get used to being outside.         I had all the starts outside on a night that wasn't supposed to get any colder than the low 40's.        so I knew if it didn't get any colder than that, all my plants would do well.          a little stress is good for them.         well, the temp dropped like a lead balloon and was at 19* most of the night, after we went to bed!!!!!          all my plants froze to death!!          weather bug is the biggest liar!!!!          I do NOT trust it anymore.         after I cried all day, I started trying to solve my problem.          I ordered a hydroponic system from amazon.         I got it and got some seeds started and they came up in record time and they looked so good  and healthy.        once they was stable, I took them from the hydroponic and potted them in container soil in solo cups and then put the solo cups in larger container that would hold 12 or 13 solo cups.        I put that container in the garage in the little greenhouse that I have out there with grow lights and a couple of heat mats.        with the hydroponic empty, I started 12 more seeds.         my husband ordered another one for me and I could then start 24 seeds at a time.          that's how I even had a garden this time.        I grow everything in containers and off the ground raised beds.


this is one of the containers of my starts that was started in my indoor hydroponic systems.        they grow so well and I'm so excited to have them that I can't hardly wait to get my garden started.


this is just a random picture of some of my babies, just starting.

this is both of my DakRide hydroponics from amazon loaded up with growing seedlings.          it's so exciting to the pictures because I know in a few short months, if the Lord lets me live, I'll get to start more.         yay!!


these are some of the lettuces that I grew.           they were so good.         I've been thinking about starting some more to have thru the winter.


this is what basket looks like that holds the pod that I put the seeds in.        when I get read to transplant the seedlings, I gently pull the pod and the plant from the basket and wash it and put another pod in it and put a seed it and the cycle starts again.


this is where I took the DakRides apart and cleaned them for the season.         if you use tap water, they will build up a lime scale from the water.          it is recommended to use store bought water that has been boiled and all the impurities removed and I learned my lesson.        you even have to take the little water circulator apart and clean it.         one of the best and safest things to clean them with is cleaning vinegar.         it will cut the scale, plus it cleans it well with no harsh chemicals.       


well, I guess this is enough randomness about my hydroponics.         keep an eye out for when I get ready to start my seeds for 2025.          I'll take more pics and share more.  

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someone here back had asked about dr and going to the drs and how to deal with them when they belittle us.         this is the response that I shared from a real life actual experience.        my nurse practitioner had sent me to this specialist.      I was looking forward to getting some answers to some long time problems, but instead he sat with my file rolled up in his hand like a little horn, I kept expecting him to toot it.         he sat there and talked for about 45 minutes.           he never once looked in my file.        he just kept talking about the "average woman".             when he finally took a breath, he said, "what treatment do you think suits you best?"           I looked at him and I asked him what I should have a thought about, because he never said one thing about "me", just the "average woman".           

he never looked at the file in his hand, if he would have, he would have seen some of the things that's in my history and my family history.               I just told him that I'm anything but "average" and I didn't hear him say one word specifically about me.             I was sitting there with the check for the office visit written and holding it in my hand the whole time.            after I asked him what exactly he had said that was concerning me, he went stark raving mad,  screaming and cursed me up one side and down the other.           

I stood up and looked him square in the eyes and started screaming myself, since that was the only way he would hear me, and told him if he wants payment for this quackery visit, he better have some tape on hand.          I tore that check   up into pieces   smaller than a dime and threw them in the air.          I told him that I would never pay him or anyone else to treat me like garbage!!!          (I also contacted my ins co, so his time with me was on his dollar, not mine or my ins co.)         he was red faced and madder than all get out, still cursing me to the top of his lungs.           

he left the room and slammed  the   door  behind  him and then  went  to  another  room and  slammed  that door behind him!!           when I walked out of the room and went towards the front desk, his 2 employees was standing there crying.          I looked and seen they was crying and I just hugged them both.         they whispered and said he does this to women all the time.          they was so proud that someone finally stood up to him.           I asked them if they was afraid to stay in here with him now and if they was I would stay with them.          they both hugged me tight and assured me that they would be ok.         they was just so happy to see someone stand up to him.           

there is nothing about me or anyone else that's "average"!!!          think about it, God made us all in His image!!!!          that's enough to say that we all are very well "above average"!!!           and we  certainly  don't  have to pay anyone to treat us like garbage!!          that was a pivotal day for me!!!            I am not an "average woman".         an "average woman" would have taken his garbage.           we don't have to!!!!           because we're not "average"!!
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hey y'all.         I posted about my pepper strings that I'm working on. I just wanted to throw this out there for food for thought.           I usually dehydrate all my excess produce.          it takes up less space than canning and I don't have a lot of storage space.

so over the last few years I've done a lot of experimenting with planting seeds.       not just any seeds, but seeds that had been dehydrated.         in the process of experimenting, I found out that most temps that are recommended for dehydrating is just too high to begin with.         yes, it will get the food dry quicker, but you may end up with "case hardening", which means it got dry on the outside, but still wet on the inside.          anything less than completely dry will cause mold in storage.        so I coined my own phrase, "cracker crisp, rock hard and bond dry".          those are my criteria before I can store it.

in all the experimenting I've done, I've found that my produce is much more beautiful when dry, when I use much lower temps than the manuals or others may recommend.           anything with sugars and starches in it will turn dark with the high temps.           a lot of people will recommend dipping everything in lemon juice to prevent produce from turning dark.           that has never worked for me, but lowering my temps is what worked to preserve the natural beautiful colors.

also, during the experimenting I done with my temps, I was also sticking seeds in the soil to see at what temp, a seed would germinate.         seeds that have gone thru the dehydrating process at the higher temps won't germinate.

guess what, all the seeds that had gone thru the dehydrating process with my dehydrators set at 110*, I got 100% germination with all the seeds I tried.         at 110* your seeds will still viable. they may be viable at a little higher than that, but 110* is what I found to be the sweet number for me to use to dehydrate peppers and tomatoes and for sure.           and I wouldn't hesitate to use my small dehydrator to just load it up with all kinds of seeds at the end of the growing season and dehydrate seeds for next year. as a matter of fact, I'm gonna try it for a lot of my seeds for next year.


this is what my pepper string looks like and just a sampling of my dehydrated goods.
    
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I seen this posted the other day and I thought, you know what, this is exactly spot on.          it can work both ways.         either good or bad.        I pray that we all strive for this to be good.         start reading the bible and let this become who we simply are.        what could be better than that, to become the embodiment of scripture.         to be more like Jesus in every way, every day.        let's do it y'all!!!!        it's needed more now than ever!!!!


like I said, this can be either good or bad, it's just what we make of it.        practicing in sin starts just like this.        also living for Jesus starts the exact same way.        and how we treat others is simply who we are.        intention, behavior, habit, practice, second nature, and it's simply who we are.          let's make sure that who we are is someone living for Jesus with every breath.         

it's hard to do.           because we live in a day and age where people do not care about others.           most people are waiting to jump on someone or shame them in some way.         just like the dude that I called out for jumping on someone for not wording something exactly like he thought it needed to be.      and just like the dr that literally gave me a cussing in his office!!      that's what I call mean spirited.          and nothing about that dr and the dude that jumped on someone on line over him not understanding what the person wrote; there's nothing in these 2 men's behavior would lead me to believe that they sat at the feet Jesus or even knew who Jesus is!!!           and then blame it on having to deal with people all day long.         excuses!!!!     we are who we are and it will definitely show.
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so I guess this is enough randomness for one day.        just a bunch of little things that I didn't want to forget, and maybe some that I should.        hahaha        hopefully some of it was worthy of your time being here.       I hope you seen something here that will be a blessing to you.      may you know the love of Jesus Christ in your life today.        I pray that you have a beautiful rest of your day!!!!       hugs and love and blessings beyond measure, patty